What is Love #2

1–5 of the First 7, 563 rules of love

Loving someone is a lot of work. Simple work. Repetitive work. Satisfying work. Frightening work. Lovely work.

I have been trying to be good at love since first Bush administration and I don’t think it’s helped. I only know a few things:

1. Show up.

I don’t even know what this means. I just know when I’m doing it and when I’m not. When I’m showing up, I’m saying what is true for me even when I don’t…



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